My husband and I married quickly and cheaply almost 21 years ago. We’d often talked about renewing our vows, but never prioritized it. All that changed a few weeks ago. We finally set a date for a wedding ceremony, a renewing of our vows.

In order to ensure that we committed, we chose our 25th wedding anniversary.

That is in 3 years and 3 months.

Plenty of time to plan an event that I’d only ever thought about in the abstract.